Dating and preparation to marry can be challenging in a world of shifting values and social interactions. A new romantic relationship is exhilarating. In this day and age, however, couples are pretty much on their own in navigating the uncharted waters of dating and mate selection. It takes intentional efforts to learn and equip oneself to handle these relationships wisely. We offer an approach to dating and mate selection that allows a couple to give their hearts without losing their minds.